The other day I had a great workshop online, and in one part of the workshop I talked about the “Lady of despair,” and how she can come around the hearts of men and turn them into an individual that is bitter with life, and turn a person who had a great outlook on life into one who sees fault in everything.

You probably know a person like this, one who seems to always go to the negative in everything.

You might even be a person like this, or was one in the past.

Let me speak about the “Lady of despair.”

I’ll even show scripture to back up the story and how this all ties into altering your state of consciousness, and keeping her out of your life.

Within the Bible the female aspect of man’s mind or subconscious mind is always spoken about, whether it’s the story of Adam and Eve or the story of Mary and Joseph.

The female and the male are always together in some form within all the stories of creation within the Bible. Likewise your conscious and subconscious mind are amalgamated with these stories as they came out of man’s ability to see the power of the feminine and masculine states.

Together they form creation in the physical world and within the world of metaphysics.

As within metaphysics we know that the “Laws of gender” tells us that everything has a male and female aspect, and both are needed to create metaphysically, and so when one is out of harmony then the other will create based on what is given.

You know this lady visits men often based on what they said or did at a previous moment in time. She never does what you haven’t instructed her to do in the past. She is sure, and never late. You might know her well if you find yourself complaining about the things of life.

Or better yet speaking about how you hate life.

• You hate going to work.
• You hate being single and unable to find love.
• You hate not making more money.
• You hate Mondays or hate the fact you can’t get ahead.

You just hate everything.

Unaware that she has inflicted your life with her presence because you spoke and thought her into your life by the impressions that were given to your subconscious mind.

^“It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.”

Proverbs 21:9

This verse speaks of the housetop which is indicative of your mind as the house is what you build from within which then reflects on your outer world.

When you’re inside the wide house with a brawling woman, this brawling woman is the inner self conversation which becomes the limiting beliefs that will defeat you.

You’ll then cause yourself to have an outer experience which isn’t conducive to your growth.

 ^“It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.”

Proverbs 21:19

The contentious woman or the “Lady of despair” that follows an individual is once again being described.

The wilderness is a place where a person wanders and tries to find their way. Similarly the person with a wandering mind who really seeks to awaken themselves, and become enlightened will find their way, but an individual who constantly find problems with life will live with this contentious woman.

^“A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.”

Proverbs 27:15

A continual dropping can flood an area and cause water damage. A contentious woman and a continual dropping of water is compared because water in the Bible means consciousness.

As water takes on the shape of any vessel it is poured in, so does your consciousness it will take the shape of any mental thought and feeling you dwell on.

So if you are always dwelling on the bad, and speaking a conversation internally that defeats you, and one that physically becomes a venom in your speech that is toxic to you, and everyone that you encounter then you are living with a contentious woman.

A person can undo what they have done, but they must first genuinely want to start the process.

Here are two simple steps.

1. You must not focus on previous issues or problems.

This is important in changing or being born again. It’s important because if you fall into dwelling on any old issues or problems from the past you may cause yourself to add some emotion which will possibly make the subconscious mind believe that it’s true and bring it to pass in your life.

“Behold, the former things are come to pass, and new things do I declare: before they spring forth I tell you of them.”

Isaiah 42:9

Let the former things (your previous self defeating thoughts) flee and only bring in new things (A new state which you know that your imagination and what you believe in creates your reality) because what you dwell on now will be what you create tomorrow.

The future is now, not tomorrow. What you think and speak now creates your tomorrow.

This is why it’s imperative that you focus your thoughts on the fulfilled outcome of what you desire.

2. Be aware of what you think about throughout the day.

Remember that awareness = “GOD,” because what you focus on creates and GOD is the creator of the universe and all, and so your universe is the life you create, hence why awareness and an awareness that consciously creates is the creative power of GOD.

“For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things: to whom be glory for ever. Amen.”

Romans 11:36

The “him” here is the creative power of GOD which is the awareness of man. Man gave the creative power of the mind of man a masculine tone with the “him.”

This is a creative force that every human being walking the planet possess, some just happen to use it against them, and so their reality is one where they are constantly in bed with the “Lady of despair.”

Think about it..

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